Page 5: Looking Forward

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            My first goal is to make sure that I am being true to myself. I feel like during this application process, whether it be job search or graduate school, a part of myself is being lost and I am giving a very idealized version of myself. I was recently looking at cover letter I sent that talks about how improved my organizational skills are, when in reality, my organizational skills suck. I am not sure if that is the only one I sent with that about organizational skills, or if I sent that cover letter to multiple places. In any case, that’s just symbolic of what I am trying to avoid as I go on with my life. I want to try to show to the world my true self, not some perfected version of myself. And so, through this whole process of figuring out what I want to do in the future, I have kind of lost myself. Therefore, a goal of myself is to be true to myself.
            A second goal I have for myself is to stop spending a ton of money. This encompasses many different money-spending activities I have, most of which are completely unnecessary, and as I go into the real world, I know I need to be more conscious with the money I spend. It’s really hard, because I have a gambling problem, and I like eating out, but I know at some point, I need to be better about unnecessarily spending a ton of money.
            A third goal for myself, this one outward facing, is for me to be better in-tune to others’ feelings and ask if I think something is going on with the people around me. As I have mentioned on Page 3, I am not always super aware of others, and so I definitely need to improve in this regard. This will also show others that I care about them, and hopefully I can provide support for those around me.
            A fourth goal for myself, also outward facing, is for me to really try to bring a positive attitude to the workplace, whenever I start with a job. I don’t want to be  a coworker who is constantly negative in the workplace, so having a positive attitude and try to make sure my coworkers are in the best mood possible.

            I think it’s important, throughout the rest of my life, to just take maybe once a week to sit and think about if I am accomplishing what I want to accomplish. I will need to not bullshit with myself, and show honestly when I am evaluating if I am accomplishing what I want to accomplish, however.

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